How to approach women

5 Simple Tips On How To Approach Women

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Here are my top 5 best tips to approach women:

1. It's not a big deal! If a woman rejects you, don't take it personally. Perhaps the woman had a boyfriend, perhaps she was stressed, angry with her friend or just simply in a bad mood. Even the best dating experts and "pick up artists" fail more often than not. Approaching women is a numbers game, the more women you approach the bigger chance of a positive response.

2. Smile! This is a no-brainer, but you would be surprised how many men approach women with a stone cold face. Be relaxed and show that you are a fun guy who don't take things to seriously.

3. Be confident. That women love confident men is not a secret. But

4. What you say doesn't matter that much. Many guys think that they have to say very funny or intelligent things to attract women. The truth is that what you say doesn't matter that much, it's how you say it that matters the most. It's all in the delivery. In fact you can say pretty much anything. But it is good to have a few opening lines remembered, so that you can approach women on autopilot and don't have to thing to much. Here are 3 good and easy openers:

a) Hey, who are you?

This shows that you are confident and a bit cocky. The pressure will be put on the woman and not on you, she has to live up to your standards and not the other way around. This is what some people call "flipping the script".

b) Hey, you are so cute that I just had to go and say hello. I'm Marc.

This is a pretty bold move. It's called a "direct opener", you show that you are interested in her right away. This is a high-risk, high-reward approach. She may reject you immediately, but if she stays to talk with you it is a sign that she is interested, and you can move much faster towards getting a kiss, her phone number or whatever you are interested in.

c) Hey girls, I just had an argument with my friend and we can't decide about this: who lies more, men or women? This is called an indirect opener. You approach a woman or a group of women with an interesting question. This way you can sneak into a conversation with women without coming across as you are hitting on them. Women love questions about relationships, intrigues and drama.

4. Be on the move. Stand with one or both your feet pointing away from the woman when you approach her. Say things like "I can only stay a minute, my friends are waiting for me". At the beginning of a conversation, this will make the women feel more at easy, she knows you won't hang after them all night.

5. Practice makes perfect. The more you approach women, the better you will be at it! It's like everything else in life. The guys who have the most success with women are the men who approach the most women. There is not such thing as failure, only feedback.

I hope these 5 tips made you a bit wiser! You can always read my blog if you want to learn more.

I wish you the best of luck with the ladies!

How to approach women